Tag: play lists
Selecting music for a show
by Devon on Dec.16, 2008, under Career Advice, Events, Exotic Dancers
I was asked recently by another dancer for advice on putting music together for a performance. This depends, of course, on a wide variety of factors, so the best I can do is offer suggestions for combining music. I can’t really make specific recommendations, because everyone’s taste is so vastly different. For example, I absolutely worship at the altar of Janet Jackson, but my dancer friend Rocco up north is non-plussed by her and instead worships at the altar of Madonna. I love Madge, but my personal diva is Janet. So, there you have it. Taste is taste.
With that in mind, I would make the following suggestions when you’re in a situation where you can bring your own mix of songs:
- Variety – this applies to genre, artists, tempo, mood, and texture. If you want several songs from a similar vein, break them up.
- Brevity – avoid songs that play longer than 3-4 minutes. Attention spans are abbreviated in clubs. Unless the particular song is a banger that almost everyone loves (and will tolerate for 4-5 minutes), use shorter mixes.
- Familiarity/Obscurity – gravitate towards music that is familiar, but throw in some surprises.
- Sensuality – I personally don’t prefer pornographic clichés like “Me So Horny.” It’s actually embarrassing when some asshole DJ plays “I Wanna Fuck You in the Ass.” I mean really. Go for sexy, not trashy. You can get freaky without being a total freak (unless you’re performing for an audience that specifically fetishizes something in particular, then go balls-to-the-walls).
Interaction – select compositions that move you to involve the audience. Perhaps a sexy ballad gives you a reprieve, so you can stop gyrating around by yourself? Take a rest and give a volunteer from the audience a smoldering, blindfolded chair dance. Get creative though – that was the first example I came up with, because everyone does it. Think of new ways to flirt and make contact (where legal).</li>
An example set that lasts about 30 minutes might look like this:
- “These Words” Natasha Beddingfield (a fun, flirtatious opening)
- “Erotica” or “Justify My Love” Madonna (absolutely smoldering)
- Lords of Acid (high octane, humorously smutty, and lots of fun – take your pick on titles)
- “Rope Burn” Janet Jackson or “Insatiable” Prince (for a slow jam interaction at the mid point), “Wicked Game” by Chris Isaac could be a more romantic alternative maybe?
- “The Way I Live” Baby Boy the Prince or “Lean Like a Cholo” Down aka Kilo (a midtempo grinder with some swagger)
- “Whatever You Like” TI or some other anthem that EVERYONE knows at least some of the words to and enjoys chanting along with
- Missy Elliot (thick, sexy grooves that allow for interesting rhythms as you depart – take your pick on titles)









