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		<title>Fessing Up: The dirty little secrets of the gay community</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2009 19:53:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello everyone! It&#8217;s absolutely gorgeous today in Washington, D.C.!! I love Dupont Circle on a pretty day (yes, I love the Fruit Loop). I hope this finds you well. Below is the link I promised for the story I wrote for Matt Comer&#8217;s blog at www.InterstateQ.com. The essay I wrote is part 5 of 5, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Compliments: The law of diminishing returns</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 09:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friend David, who often manages the door at Swinging Richards, made a comment this evening that made me pause for a moment. He&#8217;s attracted to one of the dancers on a romantic level, but said, &#8220;Rule #1: Don&#8217;t date strippers.&#8221; &#8220;Why do you think I&#8217;ve been single so long? You say you shouldn&#8217;t date [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;The Last of the Wine:&#8221; Sokrates, on getting and keeping a true and honourable lover</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 18:09:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mary Renault is, along with Isabel Vandervelde, my favorite writer of historical fiction. Renault wrote her books based in Ancient/Classical Greece during the 1950&#8242;s, so although her work is already amazing enough for its literary value, it becomes even more impressive because of how she treated Pederasty and Pedagogy (the training of young men by older [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who should NOT be a dancer?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2009 04:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Devon, I was wondering&#8230; Is there anyone who should absolutely not dance? I mean, other than looks wise, is there something about a person that should be a red flag to not get into it? My sister is interested in dancing, but I think she lives too dangerously to be good at it. - [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Oh, oh, oh, she&#8217;s my cover girl</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 17:23:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry, couldn&#8217;t resist the New Kids on the Block reference&#8230; Anyway, there&#8217;s a new LGBTQ magazine coming out soon, and I am the first cover man for it (click to enlarge). The magazine is called Night OUT Carolinas, and it will be placed in all the bars in North and South Carolina. It will also [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8230;and goshdarnit! People like me. I think.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Feb 2009 18:37:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I blogged about the differentiation in my mind between pride and arrogance. Today I am going to focus on how confusing the two affects my self-esteem. Hopefully working this out in words will help me understand how to find better balance and grace. It&#8217;s frustrating to me when I try to pay someone a compliment, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Pride and Prejudice</title>
		<link>http://www.devonhunter.info/archives/771/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 16:16:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We live in a world that is full of people who want something from us. That has lots of possibilities. Some people seek to use us for their various selfish purposes, or simply need a rubber doll with a pulse. Others want to drain us of our energy, or to prop themselves up higher by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Touch it</title>
		<link>http://www.devonhunter.info/archives/698/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 16:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are thousands of types of touch. But, for me, they break down into three overarching categories: Subtractive, Neutral, and Additive. If you are going to be an entertainer, you have to be okay with being touched. It&#8217;s simply part of the job (unless you&#8217;re in one of those bizarre U.S. states where the dancer [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fuck my husband</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 19:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In all honesty, most women at clubs ignore me completely: I&#8217;m shorter than most dancers, I&#8217;m nowhere near as aggressive or shadowy (which girls at male strip clubs seem to want more than the nice guys they can see anytime at home), and I make no secret of the fact that I&#8217;m gay. I understand [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Dr. Jekyll &amp; Mr. Hyde</title>
		<link>http://www.devonhunter.info/archives/493/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 17:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Devon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It occurred to me, after reflecting some about my experience, at that party from last week, that there is a Jekyll &#38; Hyde phenomenon lurking in many club patrons, gay men in particular. It also occurred to me that there is a day &#38; night phenomenon that I want to explore for a few moments. What [...]]]></description>
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