When it comes to paying for it: I put it this way. We used to grow our own food, now we pay for it–because it’s more efficient. People have become specialized in just about everything. Paying money is simply the balancing of an equation. In the past, men bought women diamonds and other expensive gifts…is that not paying for it? The only problem is that “sexual favors” are still a social taboo.

A second help is to know that the dancer/stripper might in some way enjoy the human touch…maybe not sexual but a hug, a handshake, and acknowledgement of humanity. Thus the customer can give more than money; they can give “postitive touch” as you mentioned earlier…assuming they are a good person.