First time for everything: That’s what friends are for.
by Devon on May.03, 2010, under Hurtful episodes, Love
An acquaintance I’ve had for some years and who has always been attracted to me has just set up an appointment. His boyfriend hurt him and they broke up, and he needs to splurge on himself. And he has chosen to do that with me. He says I have always turned him on, and that I’ve always been kind to him. So when he was trying to figure out what to do to pamper himself, I came immediately to mind.
I am going to cook dinner for him afterward. He needs to be taken care of, and having known him for five years, I can honestly say that I am happy to do it for him. He is a good soul, and I want him to feel better.
For me there is no issue doing an appointment with him, though he is nervous it will change our interaction. I have not spent much time with him in person, and so I believe he is over-thinking all this. At any rate, I’ve never been hired by someone whom I knew personally before my foray into this life. I’m rather intrigued by it!
I just want him to feel better.
EDIT:
He just left. All we did was talk and hold hands. It’s what he needed, and I’m glad he trusted me with some of what he was sharing for the first time with anyone in his life.
May 4th, 2010 on 4:35 am
It sounds as though there were two “good souls” in the room. One of the reasons I admire you is your interest in others and what they need as well how they are inside. You’re good for our souls.
-c
May 4th, 2010 on 5:12 pm
Thank you, Christopher.
May 6th, 2010 on 11:16 am
Isn’t the best part of your profession, that sex isent required, and people just need companionship sometimes?
May 6th, 2010 on 5:19 pm
Hey Art – for me the best part of my career is when I know the person leaving feels better than when he arrived. If that can be done with talking and holding hands, then I’m all for it.